My short answer to this question is no, I would not mind. But as with anything there are exceptions. If he is going as a once off for a bachelors or a birthday party or some other such event then fine but if its his favourite past time then yes I would mind – a lot.

If it’s his favourite past time, perhaps leave him to it…

I have, personally, never seen the threat of a strip club. A lot of them have strict rules as to what can and can’t be done and touched. So there is no stripping and then hopping from one man to the next fulfilling his wildest fantasy while the club at large watches. So the idea that men go to strip clubs for sex is a little naïve and outdated.

Going to a stag party - well, we all know where you’re going to end up

Men love women, they love watching them, they love fantasizing about them, they simple love them. There is no denying that. There is no point in trying to stop it or even control it. They don’t need to go to a strip club watch women or imagine them naked. All a strip club does is provide them an opportunity to not get into trouble for doing it! And it gives you a chance to have a night out with the girls or a long hot uninterrupted bubble bath.

Men, no matter how old they are, can’t resist a look or two

It doesn’t always turn them on. In fact I have spoken to a fair amount of men who do get aroused by watching the women dance but when they get closer for lap dancers or the offer is made or suggested they actually can not go through with it. It can be rather intimidating for a guy to consider actually having sex of any kinds with women as hot as strippers usually are.

Most of the time - they’re out of their league
And then there is the whole trust issue. If you are with someone in a committed relationship then why would sending them off to strip club threaten you? Yes he may look, he may get turned on, he may touch a little, it may even cross his mind to touch a little more but he won’t. He will have his fun and then come home to you. It happens more often than you think actually.

It’s all about trust, and not wearing swimming goggles

Of course there is the whole “stripping is an objectification of women” argument and it may very well be. Reality is though, whether or not your man goes, someone else’s will. It’s and age old thing. So as long as he doesn’t partake or condone the abuse in any form of a woman then I do not see the harm!

If it’s all a bit of fun - what’s the problem?

So let your man (or women) go and have some fun – make sure they tell you all about it when they get back!

What do you think? Would you be happy if your partner went to a strip club? Why not let us know.