Speed dating has become extremely successful in the last ten years. Starting in Los Angeles, a notoriously fickle city, it can be a great way to meet new people without the stress and social rules attached to meeting someone in a bar or club. Having a bad date? No problem. With the ring of the [...]

Paranoia. We all fall victim to it from time to time. When you’re feeling less than stellar, it’s very easy to walk into the staffroom convinced that the whole world is discussing the fact that your outfit isn’t the best thing you’ve worn this year. Sometimes you’re right to be paranoid,
after all, its human nature [...]

It can often be difficult to determine whether or not the jealousy you feel in your relationship is caused by the relationship itself, a previous relationship or just those deep-rooted insecurities that you have held for so long. Sometimes, jealousy can actually take you by surprise. It could be that you have never felt jealous [...]

Just about the last thing you need to round off your big day is a dingy, drab, hotel to spend your honeymoon in. Here are a few suggestions for a great honeymoon hotel experience. Take your pick (they’re not in any particular order of marvellousness, although they are all marvellous).
The InterContinental, Honk Kong
Honk Kong might [...]

Isn’t this just the perfect time of year to be thinking about slinking off somewhere romantic and decadent for some quality alone time with your loved one? Sure enough Valentines Day is just around the corner but we should not need a forced day of romance to want to spend special time with our partners. [...]

If there is one thing the internet is good at, it’s diversity. Space is virtual, countries have little to no barriers, anonymity is still relatively easy if you want it to be, and social conventions are subtly but importantly altered. The internet is a void where every niche and secret passion can find a home.
If [...]

I was asked recently by a friend (with benefits) if I would go with him to a swingers club. Now, I didn’t say yes but I didn’t say no either. It was a very decisive, ‘get the tickets first and then we shall see’.
The idea of random sex is rather appealing in a theoretical [...]

As with many life pursuits, there may be no sure fire way of asking the most useful questions of a potential soul mate on a dating site. Why the Almighty chose to make human communication so irreducibly ambiguous and open to interpretation is, of course, an unfathomable mystery. The gift of language can be as [...]

Breaking up is hard to do. It’s even harder when the person being dumped is you. Sometimes it’s a blessing in disguise and you move on pretty quickly but there are times where it’s not so much fun and it’s not easy.

Always rooms at the Heartbreak Hotel.

So what do you do? You could read a [...]