Lilly Allen has a song out about how this guy has everything – he is the perfect guy until he gets into the bedroom.
It was important enough of an issue for her to write a song about so it must be rather important in terms of a relationship, right? RIGHT!
I am a very physical; sexually [...]
How Important Is…
December 21st, 2009 : Written by Laura MurrayWhen you hate his friends
December 7th, 2009 : Written by Laura MurrayOnce you have gotten past the trauma of the first few dates, and settle into your new relationship, you are faced with meeting the friends and family.
Family, sometimes it can be a bit tough - especially with all those smiles!
This in itself can be rather traumatic because depending on how close he is with his [...]
What Women Want
November 30th, 2009 : Written by Laura MurrayMany many books have been written about what women want. Movies have been made about it. TV show hosts have had experts talk about repeatedly.
So how many people have you slept with?
November 23rd, 2009 : Written by Laura MurrayMy girlfriends and I were debating how to answer this question a while ago.
We have all been asked at some point or other and those that have answered honestly have had do deal with the consequence of that!
Sometimes this isn’t the conversation you want to have…
So what is the right answer? And why does it [...]
When you stop dating
November 9th, 2009 : Written by Laura MurraySo what happens when you stop dating? When you meet someone you like and decide that you want to put everything into this relationship – what happens then?
So is this a date or a relationship?
Why? You may be wondering!
Well I have recently entered a relationship – one that has the makings of a serious relationship.
Still [...]
Moving in together
October 19th, 2009 : Written by Laura MurraySo you have been seeing each other for a few months, maybe even a year. Things are going well. You have met his friends, his parents and all is shiny and bright in couple land.
Then the discussion happens about moving in together.
Prepare for battle.
Should be a pretty simple thing to do right? Pack your boxes [...]
Cheating
October 2nd, 2009 : Written by Laura MurrayUp until a couple of months ago I was a serial cheater.
I was the girl who had a boyfriend but also had a play thing or two. I was the girl who would kiss a boy on Friday night and a different one on Saturday night while my boyfriend was away with his mates or [...]
What men want…
September 28th, 2009 : Written by Laura MurrayAs a woman, maybe I am not qualified to write about this or maybe the title should be – What Laura thinks men want.
Having dated a lot of men I think I do have a fair idea of what they are looking for in a woman. It is noteworthy that it is not, in fact [...]
Blind dates – are they ever good
September 22nd, 2009 : Written by Laura MurrayI have been on one proper blind date. I didn’t know the guy from Adam (whoever Adam is!). It was a spur of the moment thing and before we knew it, we were behaving inappropriately at the restaurant we had dinner at- It was great fun!
Only sometimes, first dates go really, really well!
So my experience [...]
Why smart girls are the best
September 14th, 2009 : Written by Laura MurrayI am a smart girl so naturally I think smart girls are the best.
Look how clever I am? I can balance on heels on one foot
But apart from that, there are factual reasons why us smart ones are better than our intellectually challenged counterparts.

